I admit at times I do try to fix everyone else’s problems and my problems are left unsolved and what ends up happening is I’m left with other’s burdens and I forget about myself as well as forget what I’m going through. To be honest, how do I keep trying to fix other people’s problems if I can’t even fix my own? In all honesty, I don’t like my answer because I feel like I’ve given up on myself and that I’m constantly trying to please others by being that shoulder to cry on. To others, I may seem strong and self-reliant, but on the inside I’m actually breaking down and I’m putting on this facade to make people think that I’m okay.However, I noticed that avoidance is not always a bad thing because it removes you from entering certain situations. With the help of this chapter I realized that avoidance is not the answer and that avoidance doesn’t
I admit at times I do try to fix everyone else’s problems and my problems are left unsolved and what ends up happening is I’m left with other’s burdens and I forget about myself as well as forget what I’m going through. To be honest, how do I keep trying to fix other people’s problems if I can’t even fix my own? In all honesty, I don’t like my answer because I feel like I’ve given up on myself and that I’m constantly trying to please others by being that shoulder to cry on. To others, I may seem strong and self-reliant, but on the inside I’m actually breaking down and I’m putting on this facade to make people think that I’m okay.However, I noticed that avoidance is not always a bad thing because it removes you from entering certain situations. With the help of this chapter I realized that avoidance is not the answer and that avoidance doesn’t