Everyone develops a self-concept based on a perception of their own strengths and weaknesses. These perceptions are unique and always developing because they are shaped by one’s social roles, values, and experiences throughout his or her lifetime (2015). I have shaped my self-concept primarily in reflection of my family background, experiences, and the social role that I have taken up in my community and at home.
Growing up, my family and I were faced with many adversities. I was seven years old when my parents separated. The news instantly devastated me because I was very close to my father. I shared the same interest in music and love for adventure as he did. I would learn later on that my father’s absence would play a big role on my self-esteem and …show more content…
When my mother got
diagnosed with Leukemia in 2013, my role at home became even more crucial. Not only was
working I maintaining the house, I was also providing immense emotional to my parents and
my brothers. Being the eldest and an only girl was a burden and a privilege in itself. Finding
out about my mother’s diagnoses became a whole new challenge for me and my
family. Luckily, we have a handful of members in the family and we are always there for each
other through thick and thin. This experience reminded us of the things that really mattered
most and the fragility of life. My role as a sister and a daughter has taught me a great deal
about leadership, trial and errors, and most importantly, compassion. Evidently, my mother has
played a major role on the development of my self-concept. My values and religious beliefs
stem from our rich Philippine culture. Having a strong family value was imperative and God
always comes first.
My friends have always described be as a strong personality, one who always gets up