“Men are uncomfortable with any kind of communication that has to do with personal conflicts. They avoid talking about their problems. They avoid responding too deeply to other people’s problems, instead giving advice, changing the subject, making a joke, or giving no response. Unlike women, they don’t react to troubles talk by empathizing with others and expressing sympathy” (Barnett and Rivers 290). Giving suggestions, changing the topics of discussing, making a joke, and responding nothing are men’s communication troubles. Women care about other’s problems, and they will support others to deal with the problems. Some problems might be emotional. Men may lose their tears when they talk about their emotional problems. Men’s stereotype is that they are the leader of the family and should be strong, so they should not cry for any situations. Men may not want to discuss their problems with anyone because their stereotype. For example, when I have a problem, I would love to talk to my mother because she has great suggestions how to cope with the problems. For example, I did not have inspiration and motivation to keep studying when I was in high school. My mom took me to the poor communities and said that these people wanted to live better, but they did not have the opportunities to study like me. Additionally, she said that education would help you have a better life. However, I only know that …show more content…
My friend, who is a girl, spent four years to learn about her couple before deciding to get married. She told me that her husband is very gentle and do everything for her such as doing housework, cooking, etc. Her husband is very nice even though he might not look handsome. On the other hand, my friend, who is a man, has a type to become his couple. He likes a beautiful and sexy woman. He does not care about women’s habits because he cares about women’s appearances. “men and women differ widely with respect to the traits they look for in a potential mate. Men, such writers claims, lust after pretty, young, presumably fertile women. Pop cultures revels in this notion: Men want young and beautiful mates” (Barnett and Rivers 291). Selecting a couple is the quality that is different between men and women. Men are crazy in women who look young and gorgeous. Men sexually think about their couples. Before having a warm family, women need a couple. Women will concentrate on choosing a nice couple. They will choose a man who may be a good leader for the family and who looks warm and can protect herself. However, men will select their couple by looking a woman who is in a good shape, beautiful, and young. Therefore, choosing someone to become their couples is significant to