In this work, On Grief and Grieving Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and I wanted to revisit the stages for clarification in grief and loss. The stages have evolved since their introduction and they have been very misunderstood over the past three decades. They were not designed to keep the bad sensations under control. They are the manner in which people react to loss or any disappointments in life; usually it cannot be static in a particular form but alternate around the sat phases. Our grief is as individual as our lives (Kübler-Ross, 2014). I will also provide information on African American culture perception of death and dying
The five stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are a part of the framework that makes …show more content…
This led to her conclusion that everybody, during grief, will undergo a certain set pattern that is common to every person. This led to the theory being applied to other traumatic experiences like when a loved one is lost or any major disappointments in life. The initial stage immediately after receiving a bad news is shock, and then the five stages of grief will take its Couse. This is as …show more content…
Allow yourself to be angry, although it might appear to have no end. The further you really experience this feeling, the further it starts to dispel and you will be healed more. There are several other sensations that accompany anger; nevertheless, we are used to managing anger sensations only. The reality is that there is no limit to anger. Anger is so massive that it has the power of extending to close family friends and even to God the creator. One usually feels that if go has the power over death why did he let this occurrence happen. You could even ask where God was, “what did he do to stop this? Beneath anger, there is a massive pain, one’s pain. The feeling of being abandoned or deserted is quite common at this phase, but the societies live in has a deep fear of anger. Anger remains the strength in many people, and it could be a strong base, providing momentary erection to the void of damage. At the begging grief is seen to have: one has no association to everything. Finally, when someone makes you get angry, it could be any person, maybe a colleague at work, a close friend who did not support you during funeral preparations, a family member or any other person who may be looking at you differently because you do not have your loved one anymore. Abruptly, you develop a deep anger that is directed towards them. This anger is so massive that it becomes very difficult to control it. It seems that the only