Personal Narrative: My Life As A Homeschooler

Becoming an adult is a momentous occasion in any young person’s life, but often it is marked by pain and hardships that push us as individuals to earn our autonomy and personal voice. There was an event in my life which pushed me to stand up to my parents and ultimately become an individual in their eyes.
Life as a homeschooler was somewhat isolated until the end of my eighth-grade year. It was a damaging environment because of the constant interaction with my mother who was extremely critical and often lost her temper. The feeling that I could never please her overwhelmed me and even when I went to public school her manipulation of myself and others climaxed. My home had been a broken place for many years and my mother had alienated almost every family member. Her manipulation and control had come to an extent that it was hurting herself and others. My Junior year, my parents suddenly uprooted my family and moved to Texas to receive marriage counseling. The firm footing I thought was mine was ripped out from under my feet and I became hopeless as my mother informed me that moving with the family was what God demanded of me.The constant twisting of scripture that been used to control me all my life was being used again. I was completely overwhelmed. Several family friends met with me and offered their support and advice, …show more content…
This question has no definite answer, but hard circumstances pushed me as an individual to stand up for what I believed and break away from the standards and ingrained thinking of my parents. Making these decisions for the protection of myself was hard but it was also that kind of thinking and decision-making that pushed me into the adult world. I finally saw my parents as flawed human beings and challenged them to see me as an adult and listen to my voice in this situation.These events in my life were hard, but they molded me and strengthened my character to truly meet the world as a prepared