When I was living with my parents with my two kids I had to go by their rules. I had to wait until my parents could afford to give me money to get my kids and me what we needed to survive. In the process of going through this I always would say to my kids that I was going to make the situation better one of these days. I would get out every day after they went to school looking for a job. I made myself a promise that I would not ever give up or out until I got a job. It did not matter to me what kind of job it was as long as it was enough to care of my kids and me.
I wrote out a list of goals that I would accomplish at a certain time. My goals were in a certain order. The order was the things we needed to survive car to go to work, shelter so we can have some where to call our own, and a helper to help with the plan so that I want have to work hard by myself. I want to get a better degree through all of this and make a better life for
MY GOALS me and my kids. In the process I want to give them some of the things that they want not only
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their needs. It took some time to achieve all my goals but I am almost there. I got chance to go back to school in 2013 and in January of 2015 I will have achieve all my goals I have set …show more content…
I started saving all of my money toward my goals expect the little bit we had to use for personal needs. I saved enough to pay down on a used car and make notes for the remaining balance. With the help of my parents keeping the kids I was able to work overtime to get my money back saved up. After getting my cash saved up I begin to go out and search for an apartment or a house whichever came first. My physiological needs was accomplish when I got a job and was able to give my kids water, food, and basic needs for living with my own money that I worked for making all those hours. Even though I was still living with my parents I want to show them that I want to be out on my own and raise my kids. Getting the house after a few months of applying for one I had accomplish one of my goals which was safety needs by getting a house and a car.
In the process of getting me together and my kids we eventually moved into our own house with the help of my parents. As time went by I begin to date a special person and we got to know each other over the years. We decided that we can have more by moving together in one house and this was my social need in process. My esteem need to some time because