Per Dev Lesson 9

Critical period in the development of personal identity.

Close connection between people.

The need to belong to a group of friends, family, and a partner is considered a.

Need that is common to all people.

Found out that the most relevant characteristic common to students who were happy and showed fewest sign of depression.

Refers to anything that draws two or more people together.

Factors contribute to the establishment of relationship are:

The repeated exposure to an object or person will more likely lead to positive feeling.

This is considered to be the best predictorof liking and loving.

Human love straing at beautiful object, also referred to as what is beautiful is good stereotype.

The more similar in terms of beliefs and attitude a person is with another person, the more he or she will like the latter.

Results in better understanfing.

Emphasuzed the influence of social and historical factors on the formation of the self.

Shares those poignant thoughts on friendship in one of his personal letters.

The family we choose for ourselves

Will be the first people to tell him/her when they feel that his or her present friends are negatively.

Could be the beginning of a quality friendship.

Crucial development period for forming personal identity and the failure to do so lead to role confusion.

The state of being connected.

Which one chooses to connect with others could ultimately shape the state of his/her relationship and overall well-being.

Affect the state of his/her relationships with another area.

Relationship Areas:

People take the role of another person and view the situation from that person's perspective.

Experimented on how people develop attitudes.

One interprets his/her own action in the same way that one interprets others action.

People's perception of themselves is influenced by how they are perceived by others.

Embedded within the context of their groups.

Can be anything that a person finds captivating from the opposite.

And when by stroke of luck, the object attention returns the attention to the sender, a new and exciting level begins. Now becomes romantic love.

Romantic Love, Examples of these scientific tools include:

An intense state of longing for union with another person.

Romantic Love before expect it to be a state where one will feel:

Includes separation anxiety.

Very difficult if not possible, to control.

Does bring happiness, sadness, anxiety, jelousy and when unreciprocated, loneliness, and anger.

When one promises a loved one that he/she will not look at another person the same way he/she does for him/her.

Word taken seriously by those who are either in the state of love.

Cloud the judgement and impair the behavior of the one jilted.

Two typesof love:

Intense longing for union with another.

Passionate love is the type of love that:

To the love we feel for those whom our lives are intertwined.

Companionate love is the type of love that one feels for:

Who proposed the Triangular Theory of Love.

Sterberg's Triangular Theory of love identified different kinds of love depending on the components present namely:

For relationship to flourish there is a need for consistency among:

Who wrote The Road Less Travelled which said that "love is a commitment".

Brings a sense of exclusivity that allows both persons to devote themselves to the relationship.

Who said "We accept the love we think we deserve".

Love can be expressed in both:

A need common to humans regardless of culture , people who have been neglected.

Because they were made to believe so.

Way of satisfying only their needs without being sensitive to the needs of others.

Manifestation of unhealthy selfishness.

Type of love that allows both partners to grow and enhance themselves.

Authentic Love is characterized by:

Sternberg's different type of love and its components:

How to appropriately express love to the people one cares about:

Personal Relationship is formed by:

These connections are based on and strengthen by mutual experiences.

Friendship is characterized by:

Influenced by the need to be liked by others and the need to affiliate with a group.

Depend on the need to discover helpful and healthy ways to connect with other people.

Essential in defining behavior and relationship among people.

Considered to be primarily physical.

Attraction can lead to romantic love and characterized by:

Robert Sternberg identified different kinds of love:

Healthy Relationships are characterized by:

Unhealthy Relationship are characterized by:

Should also nurture friendship and relationship eith other significant people in their lives.

Simple Acts that nurture relationship include:

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